The headache wakes me like an alarm clock and I have
breakfast – coffee and extra-strength Advil – then I wait for the ache to dull.
Now headache free, I am listening to Sarah McLachlan &
sitting in the most disastrous room at Chez Hoarder, my studio – soon to be my
studio and bedroom. I’ve cleared boxes of treasures and along with it stuff you
could file under What-in-hell-did-I-think-I-would-do-with-that-? I’m waiting
for pickups on an old desk, a pine table and a cheap bookcase that hurls a
shelf of books at me if I dare disturb it by trying to remove just one. Good
riddance to homicidal furniture, I say.
Thanks to Bill and Heather, we made headway yesterday
dividing the room in half.
I know where the bed, dress and computer desk will go now. Bill
moved my shelves to their new location & I’ve put the beads back. But I’m at the packing stage where you stick a
coffee pot and socks into the same box. So far (and don’t think I’m not proud
of this) I haven’t collapsed in the middle of the rubble and wept out of sheer
frustration & exhaustion. I don’t function well in chaos.
I don’t see the neurosurgeon until March 15th and
I’m trying to get most of this done by the end of this week, in-between
appointments for an MRI, CT scan, blood test and consultation with both my
oncologists. And then, if things work out, P. will fetch me off to Port Mouton –
where I will walk on the beach, eat, drink and be generally merry.
Or…
The headaches will get worse and vertigo will set in, in
which case I can’t go far from the Infirmary’s Emergency Department and Brain
Repair Clinic.
I’m hoping for the former.
Friday, I added Wendy’s name to all my bank accounts. We
didn’t say the “D” word, but it loomed, as it has a tendency to do, anyway. Now
if I (insert “D” word), they cannot close my accounts and Wendy can pay my
bills. Planning for your own death (to hell with not saying it) is a morbid but
necessary chore. And who would ever have imagined it triples the tedious
paperwork you have to do? But it’s a matter of hoping for the best and planning
for the worst. You grit your teeth and you do it. You joke with the bank clerks,
smile. You are patient when they aren’t sure what to do & it takes a little
longer. Still here. No reason to be miserable.
Meanwhile, Dr. Bowes tells me we don’t have to go there yet.
There are still things to try. Whether he’s right or wrong, I hope there’s some
place of honor in the next life for doctors as kind and supportive as him.
We shall see. My bucket list has two items. 1. To see Port
Mouton in summer & 2. To visit the lavender fields on the west coast of Nova Scotia in
September.
Wish me luck? And if you have a truck and two big strong
guys with good backs – send them over! I’ll buy the beer! Adios muchachos! Talk to you soon.
5 comments:
I have been thinking about you every day. Every time I see all the packing and rearranging going on on your FB page, I know you are preparing for the worst.
I can only hope that when I am preparing for my worst I am as brave at putting it out all there as you are.
You have surely put my pinched nerve in perspective. Every time I start to whine about it, I look at myself in the mirror and scream......"It is NOT cancer." That stops me in my tracks.
((HUGS))
Blessings upon you. You are opening up space to live and keeping your eyes open. I love you and honor you, courageous and beautiful lady.
You are such a courageous and precious person, Linda. I hope you mark off the two items on your bucket list and add others, and mark them off too.
(o) If I remember correctly, that is just a stone, to let you know I was here, and think of you often.
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